Know these Questions to Prepare for Family Court
- Be sure you know where the courthouse is, where to park and what courtroom you will be in.
You don’t want to get lost and stressed out before you testify in court. If you have never been to the courthouse, take a trip beforehand (if your schedule allows) in order to make sure you know where you need to be on your important day.
When in doubt, email your Raleigh family law attorney and ask for directions and information about parking, the courtroom location and any other questions you may have.
- Dress to impress – with a conservative style.
My suggestion for court attire is to dress as if you are going to church or on a job interview. Some judges are more conservative than others, so it is hard to say how they may feel about tattoos, piercings or particular wardrobe choices.
You should speak to your Raleigh divorce attorney if you have any questions as to whether you should change your appearance in any way. When in doubt, always go with the conservative choice.
- Be on time – if not a few minutes early.
Keeping the judge, or your attorney, waiting is never a good idea. If your attorney tells you to be in the courtroom at 9 am you should be there at 9 am.
The court schedules are often unpredictable, so you need to be sure your tardiness does not throw off the court schedule and displease the judge. Keep in mind that you should allow for the time necessary to compensate for traffic, parking, getting through security and getting up to the courtroom.
I recommend leaving an extra 30 minutes earlier than you normally would so if something unexpectedly arises, you have some “buffer time” to compensate.
- BE SURE YOU PUT YOUR CELL PHONE ON SILENT.
Many counties will confiscate cell phones if they ring. I personally think even “vibrate” mode is too loud. You do not want to draw unwanted attention to yourself due to your cell phone.
- If you are representing yourself, do you not approach the judge unless the judge gives you permission to approach the bench.
If you need to hand something to the judge, give it to the bailiff. If you have a question before your case, approach the gate at the bar and ask to speak to the bailiff first. He or she will then direct you to the next action you should take.
- Do not make faces or roll your eyes at the judge at any time, even if you are in the gallery.
You may be watching your friend’s hearing out of support and not like what is going on, but you must not make a face, roll your eyes or may any type of noise. It can get you into trouble with the judge. If the judge figures out you are aligned with a particular party, it will not help their situation either.
Contact a Raleigh Divorce Attorney about Your Court Appearance
Keeping these tips in mind will make your trip to the courthouse a little less stressful and allow you to put your best foot forward during your day in court. If you have any questions regarding testifying in court concerning your Raleigh family law case, we would welcome the opportunity to schedule an initial consultation for you with one of our attorneys.
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